To be faithful. To be intentional.
Be watchful, stand firm in the faith, act like men, be strong. Let all that you do be done in love.
Greetings,
I’m Seun Adeyemi. Every week I write a letter to men, mostly about the things that go unsaid.
My hope is to challenge and encourage men to walk faithfully. We don’t usually drift by being idle — we drift by being busy, working hard at everything except the things that matter most. Providing is the floor, not where a man’s responsibility ends. God has called us to more than one thing, at home and in his church:
- Husbands
- Fathers
- Sons
- Brothers
I don’t do this perfectly. I’ve failed through different seasons of my life, and those failures are what drew me closer to God. A good part of what I have to offer here comes out of them.
I’m a Christian, a husband and a father. I work as a financial planner, CFP®, seventeen years of it. This isn’t a finance site. Every letter I’ve written is here, and so is the podcast. Start anywhere.
Latest letters
All 41 letters- No. 41
What is your marriage for?
Why a Christian marriage is aimed at God's glory and our holiness, and why happiness is a fruit of that, not the target, from Ephesians 5.
- No. 40
If God chooses, why open your mouth?
Why God's choosing is a reason to share the gospel, not a reason to stay quiet, from Romans 10, Acts 18 and Matthew 28.
- No. 39
If God chooses, can a man blame Him?
How God's choosing in salvation and a man's responsibility to respond to the gospel fit together, from Romans 9, Acts 2:23 and Philippians 2:12–13.
- No. 38
When you're afraid, what do you reach for?
Answering fear with trust in God instead of self-reliance, and why it isn't meant to be done alone, from Psalm 56 and 2 Corinthians 1:4.
- No. 37
What if you missed God's will?
How God guides a believer's decisions, including the wrong ones, from Proverbs 16:9 and Psalm 139:16.
- No. 36
If God is sovereign, what's left for you to do?
How God's sovereignty and a man's responsibility work together, from Nehemiah 4:9, Acts 27, and Proverbs 21:31.
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